Sunday, March 1, 2026

The Story of 2 Esthers .... Esther Naftalin in Baghdad in the 1860s and Esther Naftalin Leaving Lithuania to Travel to America at 17 in 1910 Treasures Found Doing Genealogy

 


Just some facts and figures. No fancy photos. A woman named Esther was born in 1840 and she married Yitzchok Naftalin.  Years ago I saw this entry and I wondered if that was where my Grandma Esther's name came from as her father was a Naftalin. I mean she could have been named after Queen Esther the heroine of the Purim holiday that is coming up this week. It's not an usual Jewish name, however I do two have an Esther Naftalin in m family. The one born in 1840 easily could have been the woman my grandmother was named after. As Jews name after the dead usually we are named after a grandmother or relative of a grandparent or a great aunt or someone who did good deeds. 

A while down the genealogical road that I have been traveling I came across lots of records from Plunge, Lithuania a city in the Kovno region and I was surprised to learn that a female ancestor donated money to the Persian Relief fund. She is noted in the records as "the wife of" the name of her husband. She was the only woman to donate money to this fund. That stood out as strange. Most of the records from the 1800s for Plunge reference men more than women. Apparently someone was collecting money to send to Persia or Bagdad, I can't remember the specifics. I'd rather type my thoughts now and fill the facts in later such as the specific name.

MyHeritage results showed I am a little over 5% Mizrachi Persian which was very cool, but surprising. My family started out in Europe in various places back in the 1800s. I did some research and some people related to me had married women in Baku where they were while hiding from war in Europe. Apparently that was a place many went to do business and to hide; Rabbis doing spiritual work and others involved in the modern version of the Silk Road doing other business. I've always loved reading about the Silk Road, so I was excited, but skeptical but curious. Again the nagging thought of ancestors named Esther and the women who donated money to a relief fund for Persian Jews who lived in Plunge Lithuania far away in the Askenaizi European world. Why? Sometimes there is no why but it's nagged at me over time as strange.

Recently I was doing a deep dive on the Naftalin family on Google AI and looking through old records. It turns out that an Esther Naftalin married to a Izik (Yitchok) went to Bagdad with her husband who was a merchant dealing with the updated Silk Road and yes they lived in Persia. That is the record at the top of the page. I mean you can't get more Persia than Baghdad. Apparently times were rough, there was a famine and while the Jews with more money looked out for the others, many moved on to India and beyond to build a life elsewhere. You can compare it to the Potato famine in Ireland that spurred migration to America. But in this case most of the migration went from Persia further East.

Apparently there was a "Magid Fund" in Lithuania and they would collect, often before Purim and all records (even the women) were recorded. This was the charity I remember seeing. Kind of timely seeing as how Purim is in less than 24 hours from now. The link to more info is below as well as a paragraph of explanation. From JewishGen https://www.jewishgen.org/databases/misc/HaMagidIndex.htm
"The appeal "caught fire" in the Pale of Settlement, and particularly in Lithuania, where it had an especial poignancy because the Lithuanian Jews had been going through hard times and food shortages themselves and understood the meaning of food deprivation.  Collections were made in many towns, often at the instigation of the local Rabbi.  Sometimes collectors were appointed who went from house to house, and sometimes an appeal was made in the synagogue, for example, appropriately on Purim.  Many of the donations were extremely small, but they were nearly all recorded."

Anyway I found out that this ancestor Esther Naftalin who left Lithuania with her merchant husband Yitzchok aka Itzik in the mid 1800s and went all the way to Baghdad. It's a famous story, while not well known it's recorded in various places. Imagine traveling in the mid 1800s across Europe to Baghdad. Several routes were suggested that they may take and that suggestion is listed below.  Again the Silk Road travelers were a network of families well known who often interacted and even often intermarried as they built up their family business empires. I can't imagine taking such a trip in the 1800s, there was no videon YouTube to check out or reviews on Yelp of the hotels. Add in plagues and no penicillin it's sort of miraculous to me that they even made the journey let alone survived the journey. And, apparently they thrived both in business and in charitable work while living in Baghdad. Records show that Esther ran some sort of "soup kitchen" as we'd call it today for people who needed and was well known in the community.  Did they stay there or go back to Kovno or somewhere else where business was favored for her merchant husband? Did they have kids there? Probably. Records show they lost a baby before departing, maybe traveling was a way to not think on that tragedy.Who knows as babies died all the time from the measles and bronchitis. I'm part of a world where it's common for couples to travel off to far away cities to do work for Chabad. I left Miami for Los Angeles with my first baby and pregnant with my second child on the West Coast far from home. But it wasn't in the mid 1800s. 


Record of the baby that died before they left...
...for Baghdad. 
Saw this years back but it was depressing.
Abram Itzik was the father.
Generally just Itzik in records.
Honestly the family has spelling issues.
Naftalin, Naftolin, Neftalin.
All the same family. 
 I imagine she was an Esther definitely worth naming a new baby girl after years later in Lithuania years as she was a woman who did good deeds and lived an extraordinary life living in Baghdad raising money for charities, raising children and running a large household where people Jewish and otherwise were welcome. Records show her home and her table was a friendly place to receive food or help. I'm sort of in awe. That's really amazing. A Lithuania woman in the world of Mizrachi Persian Jews far from home in Lithuania in the mid 1800s. 


Birth record for my grandmother.
Ester in Europe.
Esther in America.

 My Grandma Esther was born in September of 1895.
Oddly she's the only girl with one name.
Most have two names.
Chaya Hinde aka Ida
Pesha Neche aka Bessie
and 
Esther


The woman on the left is my Grandma Esther.
On the right is her sister Ida.
Ida was a twin.
Naftalin family was famous for twins.
Another story for another day.

I stand just like that always.
With my hand on my hip.
She was a sweet lady.
Ida, her older sister, was close to my father.
He took care of her in Miami Beach...
..until she died.
He would drive to her apartment...
..check she took her medicine.
Drive back sometimes in the evening.
Check she took her medicine.
Ida is another story for another day.

It amazes me really the things you find when you do genealogy. Actually the things you weren't looking for while you have problems finding the things you were trying to find and can't find and yet I found this story about an Esther who went to Baghdad from Lithuania near the Baltic Sea.

The Naftalins were merchants and some were on the well to do side. My Grandma Esther told me several times how her father sent her to America to her older twin sisters that were already there on a huge ship and he sent her 2nd class. She had a photo of herself at age 17 sitting on a fancy wrought iron bed in what appeared to be a cabin. Sitting politely at the edge of the bed with a quiet smile and long hair. I found out online recently that it was common to have photos taken on the ship to send back to the relatives in Europe as proof of the beauty of the cabin that was 2nd class and that they were well on their way. I also learned that by going 2nd class they were sort of "fast tracked" at Ellis Island. Her travel records show she traveled 2nd Class, she was traveling with a good deal of money (equivalent of close to $2,000 in today's money) and going to her sisters in 
New Jersey.


Big ship indeed!
She wasn't making that up!

Both Esther's traveled far across the globe.

In America she married my grandfather Herman.
Herman had necktie stores... 
..an exclusive contract with Bloomingdales for his silk ties.

Grandma loved being with her sister Ida in Miami Beach.
They'd come down for the Winter....
..eventually they retired to Miami Beach.

She painted and studied art.
My Grandfather Herman used to say:
"she's a city girl"
as he was raised in the country 
in a small town in Hungary.

Tomorrow night is Purim.
The name Esther really takes on new meaning.

I have a daughter Esther who goes by her middle name.
Kind of like Itzik.

Wow... 
I imagine she had some children in Bagdad.
Those descendants show up as Mizrachi Persian cousins.

I have a daughter Miriam who is married to a very sweet man from Netanya who is half Yeminite and half Persian. When they are pregnant in Florida with a new baby I never push names on them though if asked I suggest a few. Their second son Gavriel looks most like his father was given the name because they liked it. Gabriel is an angel name. At the bris I said to my son-in-law quietly "did you know my Great Great Grandfather was named Gavriel?" and he smiled and said "no but what goes around comes around" and with a big grin. I giggled. Indeed. That Gavriel lived in Nezhin. My grandson Gavriel lives in Miami.

Genealogy. What a trip.

Happy Purim!

And, yes will be looking deeper into this as there are records in archives mostly academic. I ran an Academic library for Touro College so I know how to fine them but for now I'm busy with pre Purim preparations. I made chocolate fudge hamantaschen!

Below is the suggestion AI gives as to how they may have traveled. Something to think on ..on Purim

Thanks for reading along. 

Again this is just my blog to keep notes for myself. If anyone wanders in ... hope they enjoy it.

"In 1862, a person traveling from 

Plungė
 (then part of the Russian Empire's Kovno Governorate) to  (then part of the Ottoman Empire) would have faced a multi-week journey involving horse-drawn transport, newly emerging railways, and steamships.

1. Lithuania to the Black Sea (Overland)
The first leg required traveling south through the Russian Empire toward a major port like .
  • Initial Stage: From Plungė, one would travel by horse-drawn carriage or mail coach to a regional hub. While the Saint Petersburg–Warsaw Railway was completed in 1862, it primarily served the Vilnius–Grodno corridor; a traveler from Plungė would likely reach the rail line at a station like Daugavpils or Vilnius.
  • Rail to the South: By 1862, the Russian rail network was expanding but not yet fully connected to the deep south. A traveler might take a train toward Kiev, but the final stretch to Odessa often still required a tarantass (springless carriage) or stagecoach.
2. Crossing to the Ottoman Empire (Maritime)
From the port of , the most efficient route was by sea.
  • Steamship to Constantinople: Steamship companies like the Russian Steam Navigation and Trading Company (established 1856) operated regular lines across the Black Sea. The voyage to Constantinople (Istanbul) typically took 2–3 days.
  • Entry to the Ottoman Empire: In Constantinople, the traveler would transfer to an Ottoman or European steamship (such as those from Messageries Impériales) heading toward the Levant or the Persian Gulf.
3. The Final Leg to Baghdad
Depending on their budget and tolerance for desert travel, the person had two primary options:
  • The Overland Desert Route (Faster but Arduous): Disembark at a Mediterranean port like Beirut or Alexandretta (Iskenderun). From there, they would join a horse or camel caravan traveling through Aleppo and across the Syrian Desert to Baghdad. This journey could take 15–20 days by caravan.
  • The River/Sea Route (Longer but Steadier): Travel by sea around the Arabian Peninsula to Basra. From Basra, they would take a river boat or small sailing vessel up the Tigris River to Baghdad. While the "Baghdad Railway" was discussed in this era, it would not be built for decades; river transport remained the primary method for heavy goods and comfortable travel into Mesopotamia.
Total Estimated Travel Time: 4 to 7 weeks, depending on weather and caravan schedules.
...wow.
Goodnight... Bobbi






Wednesday, February 18, 2026

The Question of Seidenberg & the Baden Connection .

 


This is an ad in Key West...
..La Rosa Espanola.
The Queen of Seidenberg cigars.


Jake as an older man at my mother's wedding.


He was the tallest person there...
..not saying a lot as most were short.
But tall than his younger brother Morris


This is a picture in many books on the History of Key West. There was a famous photographer who went to Key West in it's boom days when my family was there and had a little studio not far from their home on Whitehead Street. Jake is the taller of the three boys on the right. Morris, his younger brother is in the middle and a family friend on the left. They are seen in many photographs of early Key West but that photographer in the 1880s. 

Apparently Jake didn't always listen when you told him "stop chasing after that nice photographer" as he was intrigued by what this newcomer was doing. The photographer told his mother Ida that it's fine, that having subjects in a picture shows the size and scale of the buildings better. He's right, it gave the photo an interesting sort of hook to look deeper as well as the size and scale of the buildings. More Jake below on Duval Street in Key West in the1880s.



Another picture of Jake and Morris with Wolf.
On the infamous wharf in Key West.


My grandmother had a copy of this photo that I grew up looking at, this one is from a book on Key West History. Taller man my Great Grandfather, Jake in front of Morris in the back. Worth noting he is protectively holding the hand of his son Morris. 


The photo above was enhanced by My heritage.


Again the same grouping.
Wolf on the right.
Morris in the middle.
Jake on the left.

In the doorway would be Ida and Jenny.
Though it could be Ida and Annie.
Too vague.
100% the description my grandma had of Ida.
Long white sleeves.
Something on her head...scarf or hat.
Note she wore a "sheitel" in Key West.
A "wig" made for Orthodox Jewish Women.
More on that later.
I've seen pics of Jenny then she was dressed the same.
The little boy on the far left is in the previous picture.


What a picture in time.
Again the photographer took photos of businesses.
They were close friends with the owners.
They had obviously just bought new clothes for the boys..
...or dressed up for the occasion.
Usually they look like they are out of Huckleberry Finn.
Huckleberry Finn was written in 1884.

Three things to know about doing genealogy on families connected to the cigar industry in Key West in the 1880s is that much of what went on happened in New York City. The tobacco came from Cuba 90 miles away from Key West. The tobacco was manufactured in Key West by Cubans and Jews and probably Jewish Cubans as well as a few Portuguese who moved from .......get ready for it........ the St. Augustine area that had a large population of Portuguese ...some of whom may have been Jews that ran away during the Inquisition and others who set sail to the New World to seek their fortune or fame. The beautiful cigar boxes were often designed and made my German artists and some may have been Jewish, yet it was common for Jews from Germany to show their German heritage more than their Jewish. This case in point I learned when I was sitting for hours in Key West in the "Florida Room" with Tom Hambright a magical, funny, librarian that was the heart and soul of the collection explained this German collection. I said to him "well that makes sense" as I explained to him that several famous cigar makers were Jewish from Europe and he told me he always thought they were Texas. They identified as Texan but they originally came from Germany and were Jewish as well.

There was nothing more fun than sitting with Tom in the Library, across the table from him listening to his folksy wisdom and steel trap mind that could easily take on AI and win. If you mentioned a name, in my case Francisco Marrero, he'd say I have a present for you and jump up, disappear into his vault and come out with a photo and made a large size copy for me that I treasure. It's a long story, but the point is if Tom said something you could count it was true and that's how I learned the Cigar Boxes I love were originally designed and made in Germany. At some point the prints were used to make them in New York and the lower East Side of New York was the hub of the Cigar Industry.

1. Tobacco from Cuba
2. Financially run from NYC
3. German artists made the designs for the Cigar Boxes.

Obviously the cigars were made in Key West.

Why is this important?

My mother had this theory she would not let go of and she may have been right, though it's hard to nail down. She believed that her Grandmother Ida's first husband was originally a Seidenberg not a Seiden and that was how the family ended up in Key West. Her first husband died very young, soon after they were married and they had a son named Jacob who was "adopted" by her 2nd husband my great, grandfather Wolf Abrams. While first in America Jacob went by Jacob Abrams. As he approached adulthood he went by Jacob Seiden to honor his birth father. But in a 1895 census from Malaga, NJ  Jake is listed as Jacob Sidenberg. Somewhere in Tampa where the family moved their main headquarters to in Ybor City he started a Tobacco Company with the name Seiden.  Note he didn't spell it Seidenberg but Sidenberg but it's close enough to say my mother's theory definitely has legs.

Also worth noting there were over 20 years between by Grandma Mary the "baby" of the family and her older brother Jake. So he's more like a Great Great to me than a Great Uncle in the frame work of time and generations. Wolf was more like the average person's Great, Great Grandfather than the Great Grandfather. His grave his seen below. Jacob's grave marker is below, spelled SIEDEN another wrench in the hypothesis. Was that a clerical mistake or does it align with his spelling in NJ with the Sidenberg?


Let's compare a bit with Joseph Seidenberg.



There is a long, factually written discussion on Joseph Seidenberg, explaining how he got into the cigar industry while in Key West doing other things. Note, it also says the first cigars he sold in Key West were manufactured in German, later he opened up one of the largest, best run factories on the island. 

Worth mentioning here that a profession genealogist asked me if he could look at my chart some and suggested to me that many roads lead to Baden a city in Germany that was never on the family list. I was a bit skeptical but it's true that German Jews spread out across Europe looking for business endeavors ending up deep into Lithuania, Hungary and especially to America. Is Jake the missing link or does that go to my Chitrik/Rosen ancestors who connect somehow with the Carlebach family from Germany. Still not sure.


Worth noting Joseph's son was named
William James Seidenberg 
James usually aligns with Jacob in Hebrew.
Most Jack's I know are Yaakov.
Yaakov is James.

According to AI
Joseph and his brother Samuel...
..both used Jacob for a middle name for their sons.


My Uncle Jake listed two different places on his records. His naturalization papers showed a town in Lithuania named Ledvayners, Russia which genealogist friends have told me would be known as  Liudvinavas  a town that many countries owned in Lithuania, but at the time was part of Russia.



From his naturalization papers.


2nd page shows his birthplace.


Suwalk, Russia.


Jake owned tobacco farms in Quincy, FL
He traveled frequently to Havana.
Also I have been told Key West.

My mother said referencing her uncles.
My mother said they're always going back & forth
to Cuba for tobacco business.


Map shows both cities.


Baden is fairly far from Suwalk.
Baden is fairly far from Nezhin (Chitrik/Rosen)
I've learned people got around more than we think.
Especially if they had money or contacts.
Not everyone stayed in the Shtetl like Teyve...


My mother's hypothesis was that while Ida remarried they were still in touch with her husband who died young and perhaps his Uncle would have a proprietary interest in Jake and suggested or helped them move to Key West. 

That's not how the story goes from Grandma, but my mother was a writer and stories came to mind especially stories that would align with her interest. She grew roses and loved roses and loved that he put a rose on his cigar boxes. There is a street in Key West named Seidenberg after the famous factory that due to politics between the Cubans working there and the Spanish workers (long story) he picked up and followed his friend to Tampa and built a huge tobacco factory there.  It's worth noting my Great Grandparents packed up after almost dying from Malaria or whatever plague was going around and moved to Malaga NJ though they were in Philadelphia where they had relatives in 1900 according to the census. They still went to Key West for business and followed many others (not just Seidenberg) to Tampa where they started over. The reason being as my grandmother pointed out was that "Tampa had running water and her mother was tired of having to use mosquito infested water from the cisterns in Key West" and I'll add this was huge as my Grandma never stopped talking about the cisterns they had to have behind their home to get water from vs running water. 

I have tried to find information on the Joseph Seidenberg family, but not enough to get nail down the connection though I do believe it's there. Jake being a cigar dealer as was Joseph a fairly large smoking cigar. Time of being in Key West and the move to Tampa could be more than a coincidence.

I did find a DNA cousin named Jake Seidenberg but he went to Galveston and others. They all put down their old home as Odessa or other places in Mogilev in the Ukraine. But I will say there are repetitive names that are similar. I can't find that picture right now and have tarried with this blog way too long. Again the blog is notes for me to work off not great literature, I'm not even proofing today.


Definitely not Baden.
Love the wicker.

There are a lot of Seidenberg families that show up as distant relatives.

Also Jews often married other Jews that had similar backgrounds. A "Litvak" married another Litvak or it would be considered a mixed marriage. I know many list Odessa and supposedly my grandma's family lived in Odessa way back as well as England and other cities far from the Ukraine or Lithuania let alone Germany.
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Women covering their hair in America in that time period usually meant they came from a very religious background or they were somewhat Orthodox and German. German's were very strict at both ends of the spectrum, very traditional or very secular. 

What can I say about Jake?
I met him when I was a small child, barely a toddler or maybe that was Morris. My grandma lived in Miami and her siblings lived in Tampa, we were not big travelers. Annie, her older and closest sister, stopped into Miami to see me on her way to San Juan on a trip as I was an infant. There's a picture of Jenny, her oldest sister, also in Miami visiting to see "the baby" and Morris I remember as a shadowy, but nice figure who moved to Miami after his other siblings were gone and left my Grandma his much loved, very vicious Chihuahua named Baby.

Jake was a traveler. 
Jake was restless and always in action. 
Jake made money and had a walking stick with a diamond on it when my mother was little.
Jake owned land in Quincy, he and Morris remained close to the Falk Brothers in the Tobacco world after their sister Annie got a divorce and moved back to Tampa with Morris.  
Jake had a beautiful house in Sarasota near the water.
Jake had 3 fiances but never married. That always hit me as interesting.
Jake had no children, or at least none we know of... 
Jake had a fiance in Chicago and traveled there often.
Jake had a fiance in New Orleans who lived in the Garden District who was part of the family, they never married. After my grandmother's mother passed away they sent her off to the fiance in New Orleans. Worth noting she lived close to Annie's daughter Bessie Ruth Falk's mother-in-law Jeanette Levy Falk. 
Not sure where the other fiance was but I have tried finding records in the society section of the Tampa papers and it doesn't show up though there's lots of articles on the family.

Jake is a bit of a mystery.
One of many.

I'll work on it later this week as I try to keep my mind busy in that time period after the Hurricane Seaosn is over and after football season ends.

No proofing. Just notes for me and that is what this blog is for... 

Jake and Morris came to Miami for my mother's wedding. Her father had died less than two years before and Morris walked her down the aisle. Neither Annie nor Jennie came in for the wedding. It was small affair at the Rabbi's house across the street from my family. They had a small reception at home.  She always would contrast that to the large synagogue wedding her older sister had when her father was still alive though that also had much to do with my Uncle's father being the President of Beth David and needing a larger hall than the smaller Beth El where my grandfather was a member. Times had definitely changed and my grandmother has a sort of sad look in her eyes and it hits me she's wishing her husband was here to see this wedding. 


Uncle Oscar Rappaport on the far left.
His wife my Aunt Ada.
My Grandma Mary next to Ada.
My mother the bride.
My father and his parents on his right.
Behind Grandma is Jake Seiden.
2 family friends ...
My father's Aunt Ida and Morris.

Lastly........
why is genealogy so difficult for me?
on my mother's side

Jake did not marry nor have children.
Morris did not marry nor have children.
Jenny had two daughters.
One daughter never married no children.
Other married with 2 daughters..
..only one married and had children.
Annie had Bessie Ruth.
Bessie Ruth had no children.
My Aunt had my cousin I grew up with...
My Mother had 3 children, go figure.

Very few 2nd cousins on her side.
Morris had a fiance who died in a fire...
..like the Triangle Shirt Waist one but not that.
He was heartbroken could never fall in love again.
(so sad)


I'm done.
Thanks for reading if you found this blog.
Again simply my scratch pad with notes.
To research......another day.

Ps......Adding in here...
IF there is a connection it is way way back.
My Great Uncle Jake was from Suwalki
He was born decades after Seidenberg from Germany.
German Jews from Baden rarely mingled...
..with Lithuania Jews for various reasons.

But who knows...
...a genealogist I spoke to this week.
Said almost impossible.
But families love tales....
He said either way 
"your Jake Seiden made his own fortune"
Indeed he had a Cane with a huge diamond in it.

Sometimes truth is wilder than fiction...